I never imagined that a baby would show any signs of insecurity. I mean seriously, what do they have to be insecure about?
As I watch Sydney grow, she is 10 months now, she is learning and trying so many new things. For instance, walking with assistance. Sydney can walk around the table, the love seat and the couch with no hesitation. I watch her as she decides that she wants to try something different, something new. Freestyle walking. That is what I call it anyway.
Freestyle walking - to walk with no assistance. She thinks about doing this often, although she doesn't have the confidence to do so. The lack of confidence surprises me. Who has told her she can't do this? Is doubting yourself something we are born with?
As she lets go of the couch to take that first step, I can see her mind racing. I can see her hesitation. Maybe she's just scared? Unsure? I know she can do it and I want her to know this too. How do you reassure this little person who shouldn't have a doubt in the world about what she is capable of?
Sydney, we will always be here for you. When you fall, and trust us, you are going to fall. Don't ever let it stop you from pushing forward and moving ahead. You have nothing to be afraid of so shoot for the moon. Or at least take that very first step all by yourself. You can do it!
